Charity

While looking for something on one of my flash drives, I found a quote I had used in a talk that is so good I thought I would put it here so that I might find it easier and more often.
This is from Elder Marvin J. Ashton, and it was used in 2 different Visiting Teaching messages within 2 years so you know it must be good! I need to remember this when I am thinking about Christ-like love:
VT message quote by Marvin J. Ashton (June 2004 and 2006)

“We often equate charity with visiting the sick, taking in casseroles to those in need, or sharing our excess with those who are less fortunate. But really, true charity is much, much more.
“Real charity is not something you give away; it is something that you acquire and make a part of yourself. And when the virtue of charity becomes implanted in your heart, you are never the same again. …
“Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don’t judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended. … Charity is refusing to take advantage of another’s weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. Charity is expecting the best of each other” (“The Tongue Can Be a Sharp Sword,” Ensign, May 1992, 18–19).

And, while I am on the subject, I used to love hearing from Elder Ashton when he spoke in General Conference. He always gave messages of hope and love. He died in 1994. He was a very good man.